How to Get Involved for Your Child’s Success
Every parent hopes their kids will succeed. Their primary goal is for their children to have the best possible life, which involves seeing them perform well in school, enroll in and thrive in college, and eventually lead fulfilling lives outside of the classroom. Parents invest a great deal of time, money, and effort into making sure their children succeed. In addition to meeting their fundamental requirements and putting their kids in the greatest schools, they are also preparing them for further academic support like home tutors or innovative study tools. Nevertheless, despite all of this, they could also tend to overlook or forget about their parental participation, which is one of the most crucial factors influencing their child’s success.
The likelihood of success in life is higher for children whose parents are more involved in their lives. Regretfully, not all parents believe that their involvement is equally crucial. Some parents overlook the importance of their involvement in their children’s success in favor of giving them the tools they need to achieve.
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What are the benefits of parents’ involvement with their children?
Numerous studies demonstrate that parental involvement in a child’s life is beneficial. These kids develop into decent, successful adults not only intellectually but also socially, emotionally, and behaviorally. Conversely, children who didn’t witness their parents being involved are regressing in a lot of areas. They may not know or have trouble dealing with things that come their way the way children whose parents are involved don’t have to worry.
As parents, you also strive to see your child grow up not only to be successful but also to be a well-rounded individual. Let’s look at the many ways parental involvement benefits children.
1. Academic growth and achievement
Children whose parents actively support them in their academic endeavors are likely to excel in the classroom. When they are struggling to understand a concept, they are also more inclined to ask for and accept assistance from others. On the other hand, kids who don’t get much parental assistance with their schoolwork usually don’t perform well in school. They can be more likely to overlook turning in assignments or homework on time. In addition, teachers have a higher opinion of children whose parents are more involved than of children whose parents are less interested.
2. Great school attendance
Children who hear their parents stress the value of education are also more likely to like going to school than children whose parents don’t care. These kids typically have so poor self-esteem that they may even consider quitting school or wanting to miss courses. Due to a lack of awareness or instruction on the value of education, they lack motivation to attend school. Children with more involved parents view nearly perfect attendance records as stepping stones to achievement.
3. Good social life and healthy mental health
Generally, children with good self-esteem and social skills are those whose parents are very involved with their lives. These are the children who have a good atmosphere in the home and as such because of this, they also foster good social skills and have a good sense of self. Children whose parents aren’t as involved or those who may come from a dysfunctional family background may be socially inept. They are also most likely to be the ones who suffer from low self-esteem or have poor social skills.
4. Good behavior
Behavioral problems in children are another item that can be observed as a result of a dysfunctional household, particularly in relation to low self-esteem or poor social skills. Some of these children also have parents who don’t always show them that much love or give them the necessary attention. Children raised in a loving and supportive environment tend to exhibit more stable emotions and behaviors. Because of this, they also have a higher chance of being reliable and positive in the relationships that concern them.
How can parents help their children succeed?
We have been talking about the benefits of parental involvement in children and how it can help them in achieving their goals and becoming successful but how does one become involved with their children’s journey? We have a list of some of the ways for you to show your involvement and nurture success in your children.
1. Get involved in your child’s school life
Of course, this can be easier said than done. Although parents have a lot on their plates already, there are lots of methods for you to support kids’ school life. As easy as getting to know their teachers can suffice. When you can, schedule a meeting with their teachers to demonstrate your interest in what your child is studying. In the unlikely event that your child has a problem, you can even ask them to contact you.
To connect with your child’s teachers and other parents, make an effort to attend parent-teacher conferences and other school-related events that you are required to attend. At these events, you can meet the people who are involved in your child’s school life. Since you will be attending the meetings and programs, your child won’t feel excluded either. They’ll sense that you’re trying your best as well.
Aside from their teachers, you can also get to know their classmates, schoolmates, and friends. However, keep in mind that this shouldn’t be done in an obtrusive manner. Simply get to know them, or at least find out who your child is spending time with. To get to know their peers better, invite them over for dinner or to a study session in your home.
2. Help them with schoolwork
Once you get to know your child’s teachers, it will also be easier to approach them to ask and find out the areas your child needs improvement in and also help him in those areas. You can also set up your child for a tutor at home if they require more assistance. You can also assist your child with their homework and consider how you can best support them in finishing it. One way you may support them is by giving them a place to work on their assignments or by helping them with questions.
Along with answering their questions, you may also assist them in their study by giving them resources, helping them find the right answer, or even just pointing them in the right direction. It’s crucial to remember, though, that you shouldn’t absolve your child of their work. Allow them to do their own job; don’t finish it for them. You can assist them in understanding the subject or in finding the solution. It is not the same as doing their homework for them when you assist them with it. Lastly, you can also help your child in preparing for their tests. Help them in any way possible such as by helping them relieve themselves from exam stress to helping them with their exam revisions.
3. Monitor their screen time
These days, schools use a lot of technology, and it is rare to find a child who is not proficient in using a smartphone or tablet. Even though technology has many advantages, it’s still advisable to keep an eye on how much time your kids spend watching TV and playing with their phones. Ensure that they have designated periods during the day for active play and enjoyment and that your child is aware of their boundaries. Establish guidelines about the content and duration of their viewing. Overuse of screens can seriously interfere with academic performance and eventually lead to addiction.
4. Build a strong relationship with your child
Developing a bond with your child is the final piece of advice. Don’t just constantly get involved with what they are doing if they aren’t comfortable with it. Establish a bond based on love and trust; if you are honest with your child, they will reciprocate. By doing this, you can be sure that your child will turn to you in times of need.
By engaging in simple activities with children, such as watching a movie, flying a kite, playing board games, or preparing a meal together, you can nurture a relationship with them. Motivate them to learn more about their surroundings. Not only can you teach children in the classroom, but you can also impart knowledge while you are spending time with them.
Teach them how to buy and create a budget; these skills will come in handy when they are on their own. To ensure they are aware of current affairs, instill in them the habit of following global news. To improve their knowledge and general well-being, help them develop their intellect, and provide them with a wider view of the world.
Conclusion
Being involved in your child’s life is very important in making sure they are set up for the future. This would help develop their social and emotional skills, as well as build their self-esteem and make sure they are willing to ask for and accept help when they need it. Simply giving them the tools to build their bright future is not enough, parents should also be there for them and provide support in more ways than one. However, it’s also worth noting that being too involved in your children’s lives may also cause harm and misunderstanding. Parents have to find that balance between being actively involved and not suffocating their children in the process.
Carelle
Carelle is a teacher who has been through the ups and downs of the teacher and learner life. She wishes for every learner to gain educational satisfaction that will help embody the people they want to be in the future.
